Dr. Milliken discussed the schedule and possible side effects of the chemo directly and with a terrific sense of humor. For such a difficult topic, Danny and Carol were able to laugh and find some humor in an otherwise scary topic.
Starting tomorrow (2/5), after tests and paper signing, Carol will be admitted to a room to begin the first of four 30-hour treatments. Chemicals will be given through IV tubes for about 6 hours and then fluids to re-hydrate her for about 20. Approximately 12 weeks after treatments begin, she will undergo a radical hysterectomy and have her bladder removed.
Dr. Milliken did prepare Carol for not having energy for 12 of the 14 days between treatments. And after surgery, she will not feel like getting out for about three months. She should feel like "herself" in 8-10 months after surgery.
Today Carol got busy finding a fabulous wig that will fool everyone -- she looks great!
There will be many opportunities in the days ahead to serve this Servant that we all love so much by bringing meals or sitting with her to keep her company -- answering the phone and door. A meal schedule will be sent out via email and through this blog so anyone can participate. Carol has served all of us in so many ways, I know we are all thrilled to have the chance to serve her.
I am sure there are many prayer points that you can think of; one specifically would be strength and health in the days ahead and protection against illness that would interrupt her chemo schedule. And of course, for her family. It is hard on Mary Shannon and Hailey to be out of town away from their mother at this time. Also, prayers for Daniel would be appreciated -- that his needs as a high school student are met.
Carol and Danny are so grateful for all of you, your prayers, phone calls, flowers and all your expressions of love. They know they are not going through this alone and it means so much to them.